"love me with your soul not your fucking eyes; because those things can fool you into thinking you love me, when it’s just lust."
"You can choose comfort or you can choose courage. You can’t have both."
"Finding someone worth waking up to is better than finding someone to sleep with."
"It’s amazing how words can do that, just shred your insides apart."
"Pornography reveals that male pleasure is inextricably tied to victimizing, hurting, exploiting; that sexual fun and sexual passion in the privacy of the male imagination are inseparable from the brutality of male history. The private world of sexual dominance that men demand as their right and their freedom is the mirror image of the public world of sadism and atrocity that men consistently and self- righteously deplore. It is in the male experience of pleasure that one finds the meaning of male history."